Comments on: A Note From The Schoolmarm http://www.bingnote.com/blog/a-note-from-the-schoolmarm Helping parents to inspire their children Fri, 5 Mar 2010 21:03:50 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: The Schoolmarm http://www.bingnote.com/blog/a-note-from-the-schoolmarm/comment-page-1#comment-366 The Schoolmarm Wed, 10 Sep 2008 05:00:59 +0000 http://www.bingnote.com/blog/a-note-from-the-schoolmarm#comment-366 Sounds like two main things are going on: what the other kids are doing, and how it is affecting your own child's behavior, right? Since it seems you are there to observe , and have had experience teaching, how about using puppets to act out the behaviors with the kids. Let them take turns playing the different roles of mean vs. nice. Afterwards, guide them in a discussion of how it felt to be picked on, which puppet did they like the most? Help them to recognize what is mean and what is acceptable. If you see them repeating the negative behaviors, you might have to call on the puppets again, to remind them of the appropriate way to play and be friends. Hopefully your daughter will get the message along with the others, but to make sure, discuss it with her in private to reinforce the lesson. A book referral that might be helpful: What To Do When Kids Are Mean to Your Child, by Elin McCoy, Reader's Digest Parenting Guide. Hope this helps, The Schoolmarm Sounds like two main things are going on: what the other kids are doing, and how it is affecting your own child’s behavior, right?
Since it seems you are there to observe , and have had experience teaching, how about using puppets to act out the behaviors with the kids. Let them take turns playing the different roles of mean vs. nice. Afterwards, guide them in a discussion of how it felt to be picked on, which puppet did they like the most? Help them to recognize what is mean and what is acceptable. If you see them repeating the negative behaviors, you might have to call on the puppets again, to remind them of the appropriate way to play and be friends.
Hopefully your daughter will get the message along with the others, but to make sure, discuss it with her in private to reinforce the lesson.
A book referral that might be helpful:
What To Do When Kids Are Mean to Your Child, by Elin McCoy, Reader’s Digest Parenting Guide.
Hope this helps, The Schoolmarm

]]> By: LP http://www.bingnote.com/blog/a-note-from-the-schoolmarm/comment-page-1#comment-365 LP Tue, 09 Sep 2008 17:06:58 +0000 http://www.bingnote.com/blog/a-note-from-the-schoolmarm#comment-365 My daughter has several friends that she likes to play with. They range from ages 4-6. It's always hard when there is an odd number of children. And several of them seem to compete to be the leader or boss of the rest. That seems pretty normal to me, as I used to see that when I taught. Our concern is when they just aren't nice, and then my daughter ends up thinking it is ok to act that way. Things like saying mean things, sitting on someone, threatening to hurt someone (although said a bit teasingly), and just making mean comments when things don't go their way. Any suggestions on how to help my daughter know she needs to behave differently? Ways to help counteract this other child's behavior? My daughter has several friends that she likes to play with. They range from ages 4-6. It’s always hard when there is an odd number of children. And several of them seem to compete to be the leader or boss of the rest. That seems pretty normal to me, as I used to see that when I taught. Our concern is when they just aren’t nice, and then my daughter ends up thinking it is ok to act that way. Things like saying mean things, sitting on someone, threatening to hurt someone (although said a bit teasingly), and just making mean comments when things don’t go their way. Any suggestions on how to help my daughter know she needs to behave differently? Ways to help counteract this other child’s behavior?

]]> By: missy http://www.bingnote.com/blog/a-note-from-the-schoolmarm/comment-page-1#comment-360 missy Thu, 28 Aug 2008 16:00:26 +0000 http://www.bingnote.com/blog/a-note-from-the-schoolmarm#comment-360 i am looking for free cutouts, games and cutouts for 3 and 4 year olds thanks,missy i am looking for free cutouts, games and cutouts for 3 and 4 year olds thanks,missy

]]> By: the schoolmarm http://www.bingnote.com/blog/a-note-from-the-schoolmarm/comment-page-1#comment-68 the schoolmarm Thu, 20 Mar 2008 05:40:25 +0000 http://www.bingnote.com/blog/a-note-from-the-schoolmarm#comment-68 Usually children with poor comprehension do not enjoy reading. They may call words, but not understand what they have read. It is frustrating and many times they give up and appear to not care. Truth is they care a lot. I would refer the child to the school psychologist to determine if there is a learning disability. Thanks for writing and let me know how it goes in getting him or her tested. The Schoolmarm Usually children with poor comprehension do not enjoy reading. They may call words, but not understand what they have read. It is frustrating and many times they give up and appear to not care. Truth is they care a lot. I would refer the child to the school psychologist to determine if there is a learning disability. Thanks for writing and let me know how it goes in getting him or her tested. The Schoolmarm

]]> By: lrbizeebee http://www.bingnote.com/blog/a-note-from-the-schoolmarm/comment-page-1#comment-56 lrbizeebee Wed, 19 Mar 2008 05:37:05 +0000 http://www.bingnote.com/blog/a-note-from-the-schoolmarm#comment-56 Dear Schoolmarm, I know a 10 year old who does not like to read, and is therefore behind others in some subjects. We all know the importance of reading. What's the best way to get someone at the age to actually enjoy reading? Dear Schoolmarm,

I know a 10 year old who does not like to read, and is therefore behind others in some subjects. We all know the importance of reading. What’s the best way to get someone at the age to actually enjoy reading?

]]> By: Eric Richards http://www.bingnote.com/blog/a-note-from-the-schoolmarm/comment-page-1#comment-41 Eric Richards Sun, 16 Mar 2008 02:55:23 +0000 http://www.bingnote.com/blog/a-note-from-the-schoolmarm#comment-41 The activity sheets look awesome. A great way to help parents engage and communicate with their kids. The activity sheets look awesome. A great way to help parents engage and communicate with their kids.

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