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My son took his first cross-country flight to visit relatives when he was six months old. The stewardess thought he was cute and carried him up and down the aisle showing him off. It gave me a much needed rest and I was proud, of course, but would have been less thrilled had I known he was picking up measles as he was being carried about.

Flying is not always fun for young children or their parents. Their ears hurt on take off and landing, they are in cramped quarters, they get restless and bored. (and that’s just the parents.) Infants may cry loudly when the air pressure changes or when they are hungry or frightened. I recommend chewing gum for the big folks, and a pacifier for the little ones, or the other way around if you’re really desperate.

A toddler may self-entertain by playing peek-a-boo with the people sitting in the seat behind him. At first they laugh and encourage the game, but what was cute can become annoying. The sensitive parent will distract the child into another activity.

Older kids may get so involved with their electronic games that they become too loud, forgetting where they are. Children arguing with each other can also be a major irritation to nearby passengers hoping to catch some zzzzs, read or work.

Talk with your older children in advance and teach them proper air flight manners. Have your rules firmly in place and enforce them. Bring along a soft blanky to encourage naps and quiet time, as well as providing their favorite games, books and snacks. It will be good training and everyone will appreciate your thoughtfulness.

See you in the aisle seat,

The Schoolmarm.